In Memory of Michael

I am taking a break from my regular postings in honor and memory of my oldest brother, Michael, who on December 26, 2009 started a new life in heaven.  My family has had a difficult week but also one of sweet memories.    

Michael

May 26, 1947 - December 26, 2009

My oldest brother, Michael, was a juvenile diabetic that spent his last seven years battling illness, surgeries, rehab and hospitalizations.  His last year was the most difficult as he suffered another stroke that left him unable to swallow and eventually led to a trachea and feeding tube.   He was not able to be home with family the last two Christmases and this was very hard for him.  My husband, children & I spent about an hour with him on the afternoon of Christmas Day singing him Christmas carols, his favorite being Silent Night.   He was sedated but knew we were there, he mouthed Merry Christmas when we said it to him with our goodbyes.  It was a very sweet memory that we will treasure.  

The following is my tribute to him that I read at his funeral December 30, 2009.

"My big brother was one of the stongest, most courageous fighters that I know.  His illness never stopped him from loving life and loving us.  His strong will to live gave him the ability to endure 7 years of illness, surgeries, rehab (aka PhysTherapy which in his humor he called Pain & Torture) and hospitalizations.

We tend to wonder why someone has to endure such trials in their lives.   But we are each given the ability to put our faith to the test and God knows just how much we can handle.  Isaiah 55: 8-9 tells us:

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says the LORD.

For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

 I remember Michael asking, "why" early on during one of his hospitalizations when he was faced with one of his amputations.  I shared a verse with him from Jeremiah 29:11:

For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord.  Plans not to harm you but give you a hope and a future.

Michael's illness and struggling may not have been our ways but it may have been God's way of getting his attention.  It wasn't too long after this that he may a profession of faith.  And based upon that trust/hope that he put in Christ- we can know beyond a shadow of a doubt that Michael IS in heaven face to face with the Lord- whole and no longer suffering.

Christmas was Michael's favorite time of year & I believe that God gave Michael a Christmas gift by taking him home to be with Him.

Michael's witty humor, love for his family, teasing, gourmet cooking and so many other things* will be missed but he will remain FOREVER in our hearts."

* service to the community. Christmas holidays, fighting over the calamari, love of music, the stubborness that kept him going, the twinkle in his eye, his smile (even when in pain), pet nicknames, and when he would pick up the phone to check on his family when they were going through difficulties (despite his own issues).

MeRrY ChRisTmaS!

It's hard to believe that Christmas is here...oh how time flies.  We were still in decorating mode on Christmas Eve since the kitchen was just finally getting put back together (95% done!).  There are a few things that will have to wait until after the holidays but at least the big time consuming parts are finished!  (I will be posting our project soon, really, I promise!)  This has been a new journey for me and I am loving the adventure.  I hope to do much more now that the major kitchen project is almost complete.

I am posting a few pics of our Christmas decor that we have around the house (while waiting for everyone to wake up-late night with family celebrations).  One in particular I am thrilled with...so without further ado...

I LOVE how this turned out...hope you do too!

canning jar wire insert, canning jar with dominoes, rusty bells & candle, various found/bought items-

see more pics at junkmarketstyle.com (itsnotjunk2me)

vintage pepsi crate, 1950's light set, vintage postcards, rusty spring holding old photos, 

toy fire engine sprinkler, wooden shoe stretcher

livingroom mantel with glass,glitter and rust...love it!

 

pedestal candle holders ($ tree candlestick, vase & gorilla epoxy) with bells, beach glass & candles

here's my inspiration...

(http://granvillehouse.blogspot.com/2009/11/dollar-store-version-of-ws-glass.html)

 

more glass, glitter and lights!

glass block was a gift from my m-i-l several Christmases ago 

I would like to wish all of my friends, family and blogging buds (rosebuds that is) a VERY Merry Christmas!!!!   Have a wonderful time of gathering together with loved ones, reminiscing, and remembering the TRUE meaning of CHRISTmas. 

Sigh....kitchen still in progress

Our kitchen is taking MUCH longer than anticipated and of course the holidays are FAST approaching.  Don't we all work better under PRESSURE! (sure)  I am so sorry for the time lapse in posting.  For this reason,  I thought I'd give you a bit of a glimpse into the progress so far.  It's beginning to look a lot more like a kitchen...just like it's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!  We have some finishing to do on woodwork and then the distressed paint job on lower cupboards.  There may be some things that will HAVE to wait until January. (sigh)  Without further ado, here are some pics....

 Floor before:

Floor after:

Aren't the floors just gorgeous!  Charlie, our local floor re-finisher did an amazing job.

The bottom cupboards have their base coat on them, awaiting the top coat, crackle paint and some distressing.  In the upper photo, there is a piece of wood (on right) lying across the ladder which are the "feet" to the bottom cupboards so they look like furniture.  Our carpenter friend, Darrin, made that along with all the cupboard doors (soon to be installed), and trash bin pull-out (my fav).

So stay tuned for the full reveal...coming soon to this blog!